Parents Reaching Out, Home of: NM Parent Information and Resource Center, NM Parent Training and Information Center and NM Family to Family Health Information Center
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Parent to Parent

Parent to Parent is a statewide network of families willing to share their experiences and information. We connect parents with other parents through parent to parent matches. Parents whose children are in similar situations are matched based on various needs - age of child, community, issues or concerns, school or grade, diagnosis, disability or illness.

We are a resource for families as they journey through all phases of their lives. Many parents discover how important it is to connect with another parent who knows first hand the feelings they are experiencing. Through parent to parent, opportunities are created for a unique bond of mutual support and pathways are opened for sharing of information. By connecting parents with each other, we empower families and put them in touch with the resources and information available for their child.

We provide resources and support to families with children in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit and the pediatrics unit at the University of New Mexico Hospital in Albuquerque. We understand the emotions, myths, and realities of parenting a child with special needs.

Parent to Parent is the cornerstone of Parents Reaching Out. We believe that outcomes for children will be brighter when families are able to connect with one another to share experiences, information, new ideas and offer support. Networks of well-informed and empowered families who can tell their story can make a positive difference as education and healthcare systems work to develop programs and policies for the children they serve. Parent to Parent offers:

  • Connections to families with similar needs and experiences.
  • Information on local, state and national resources and organizations.
  • Workshops for parents who would like to become volunteers.
  • Presentations for professionals, parent groups and other community organizations.

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Parents Connect for a Variety of Reasons

  • To discuss ideas, concerns, information or questions.
  • To share information on school, play groups, childcare or parenting.
  • To get support group information.
  • To ask about therapy, equipment, programs or medication.
  • To share community resources.
  • To seek friendship & support.

Who do we connect?

  • Moms / Dads / Step-parents
  • Foster / Adoptive parents
  • Teen parents
  • Divorced / Single parents
  • Parents of
    • teens
    • newborns
    • children with chronic illnesses
    • children with disabilities
    • children with rare disorders
    • children with mental health/ behavior issue
  • Parents in the military with children with special needs
  • Parents coping with grief
  • Parents new to New Mexico
  • Grandparents
  • Siblings

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What happens during a match?

Parents call us or are referred to us through a variety of sources: medical staff, service coordinators, parents, disability groups, etc. When you contact us to request a match, we will spend some time on the phone finding out about your needs and what would make the best match. The match between a volunteer parent and a referred parent is usually based on similarities of concerns or disability, age of child, location, and similar family experiences.

We check our database of volunteers and contact the volunteer that is the best match. Our volunteer will contact the parent requesting a match as soon as possible. Once the initial contact has occurred, the on-going relationship develops according to the needs and preferences of the referred parent. Some matches are short-term, consisting of only 2 or 3 contacts. Others evolve into lasting friendships. Parents often emerge from their parent to parent connection feeling less alone and more confident.

A parent to parent match does not replace physicians, therapists or other professionals. We believe that many families' needs go beyond the boundaries of formal services. What we can offer each other is uniquely ours. We have all been there.

All information is kept confidential.

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Learning Opportunities

Providing parents with information is the best way to help them become the best advocates for their children. It is also a way that parents connect with one another and form networks to bring positive changes to their community. The workshops designed to promote parent to parent connections are listed below. If you have questions or would like to set up a workshop in your community, please feel free to call Parents Reaching Out at 1-800 524-5176.

  • Parent to Parent PROspective- (2 hours) Discover the resources that Parents Reaching Out offers and the value of connecting with other families in similar situations. Learn about support groups and resources. This workshop is designed for parents who are interested in being matched with a Support Parent in our Parent to Parent network.
  • Connecting Families with Families-(Full Day) This workshop is designed for parents who are ready to help other parents through their journey. Parents who have been there can provide support and information to other families as they face the challenges and emotions of parenting a child who may have a developmental delay, disability or medical condition. We provide tools for volunteers interested in making a difference as a Support Parent through Parent to Parent connections.
  • Telling Your Story-(3 hours) We learn from our own experiences and the experiences of others. These "life lessons" help us make future choices that better meet the needs of our family. When we share our "life lessons", we can also help others understand our position and improve the quality of life for our children and others. Learn why it is important to tell your story. Tools and tips you can use to prepare your story.

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Family Leadership Action Network

During your journey with your child, you have had the opportunity to learn a great deal. You probably have come to understand the emotions related to the challenges you have faced, deepened your values with regard to your child, learned about community resources and strengthened relationships with others. Parents can be helped by other parents who have adjusted well to their own child's special challenges and have the capacity and willingness to help other parents by sharing their feelings, experiences and information.

Would you like to share what you have learned with other parents? Parent to Parent is looking for parents who are interested in reaching out to others. Parents who are willing to participate in workshops to learn to effectively support other parents and parents who want to make a difference. We invite you to contact us to about parent to parent.

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Parent to Parent Publications

Parents Reaching Out offers a variety of materials as outreach tools as we connect with communities across New Mexico. Our publications are designed to provide information and resources that build informed decisions as families work with systems to create successful opportunities for children and young adults. We invite you to browse through our Publications and Fact Sheets page for resources and topics that cover, early intervention, education, special education, health care access and systems change.

Our booklet and companion workshop entitled "Telling Your Story" is a powerful resource tool for families as they make connections with one another and navigate the systems that impact their lives. We encourage you to download this publication from our Publications link and contact us to find out when the next workshop will be scheduled in your community.

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Contact Parent to Parent: P2P@parentsreachingout.org

 


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